🏳️‍🌈🧐 Red Wristbands and BLUF

🏳️‍🌈🧐Know Your Thirsty’s🧐🏳️‍🌈

A couple notes for those who ask on Gear and RED Wristbands…

Red Wristbands means DO NOT TOUCH ME at all. It does not mean you can touch whoever you’d like who doesn’t have a wristband. You still need consent.

If someone does make an unwelcome physical advance, and can’t respect an obvious ‘no’ please tell our staff. If you had a wristband they are out ASAP, if not we will go talk to them about boundaries and maybe still kick them out if they can’t seem to respect that.

So look for (or ask for) that RED wristband and always ask for consent.

BLUF traditionally means (Britches, Leather, Uniform Fan club) BUT for us it means:

Butch, Leather, Uniform, Femme (BLUF). All of which are acceptable gear with the one caveat on uniforms, no fascist or law enforcement insignia. So if gear is required, wear the theme if you can, or at least a harness or any of the above. Street clothes are not gear.

Inclusion statement from our website:

We are kink-positive, person-positive, and anti-fascist.

Kink/Leather/BLUF aesthetics are always welcome—but no extremist insignia or law-enforcement emblems. Gear never substitutes for consent always ask. A red wristband means “do not touch” (let them lead).

We celebrate queer, trans, bisexual, nonbinary, femme, masc, and ace leatherfolk and kinksters of every race, body, and ability—age (18+). Femmephobia, misogyny, racism, violence, and transphobia will never be tolerated.

Consent and RESPECT are always mandatory.

A mild complaint will result in a warning. A serious or second complaint will lead to removal for the night or a permanent ban. Legal involvement will be at the discretion of the harmed party.